Heavy K’s baby mama and singer Ntombi Nguse calls him out for child support - ‘I am tired of you!’

 Producer and DJ Mkhululi “Heavy K” Siqula (30) recently announced the birth of his newborn baby, Phindile, who he named after his dad.

The Inde producer previously told a local publication that he was happy to add another boy after his two boys Yuri and Juju from his previous relationship with singer Ntombi Nguse.

Heavy K recently admitted to not seeing his kids as much as he would like to but plays his role as a father despite them living in the Eastern Cape with the grandparents.

“It’s a pity that the first two live with their grandmother after we separated with the mom. I don’t see them as often as I would like to.”

The mother of his eldest children, Ntombi Nguse (25) has since taken to social media to call out Heavy K for allegedly not taking care of his children, saying it took her a lot to get to this point of posting about their relationship on social media.


“When I say a lot, I mean a lot! You have been nothing but toxic from our past relationship till this very day you are toxic!” she says.

“Co-parenting with you is one of the worst experiences I'm currently going through. It's a constant battle and it's sad because I've never seen this one coming. You've always loved your kids, always took care of them as a dad should but ever since the year 2019.”

Ntombi says ever since they separated, he has also stopped being apparent to their children.

“Ever since we parted ways, you kind of parted ways with your boys too, all they have now become is PR for your brand. You know how you always say, ‘I'm selling my body to make money." Yes, you are absolutely correct! Simply because you aren't doing enough and if it means that I need to get paid to sleep with a man so that I can make ends meet for my boys I will do it without thinking twice!" she says.

Heavy K did not want to comment on the allegations. He previously told Drum that he loves his family and his children.

“My family means a lot to me. I love and I also spoil my kids,” he says. 


Heavy K has learned to be protective over his new relationship and wants to keep it under wraps until he is ready.

“My girl comes from a very good home, and I respect her family. I want to protect my relationship because I sabotaged the previous one by letting outsiders into our space. People would send my ex the wrong information about me, or my enemies would give her information because they didn’t like to see me happy. Exposing my relationship to a lot of talk and gossip was a mistake,” he says

Ntombi called him out publicly.


“You have a disabled six-year-old boy that is still unable to walk, who doesn't have a wheelchair, who doesn't have any medical coverage, and that time all you ever send is 5k. They have a nanny that needs to be paid, there are school fees, transportation, medical needs, food. Who do you think pays for all that? Always comparing yourself with a person who doesn’t even make half of what you make a month. I wanted to make something out of myself but because of your personal insecurities, you never wanted me to spread my wings but rather live under your shadow and look where that has gotten me? Where it has gotten our kids! Cause if I was making my own, trust and believe I wouldn't be even doing this because I would take care of my own since you're failing to.”

Their six year old was diagnosed with cerebral palsy, a condition that affects muscle tone, movement, motor skills and sometimes brain function.Ntombi says she has been nothing but patient and respectful towards Heavy K.

“But you don't appreciate kindness whenever you confronted about you not doing right towards your kids you label me as a "disrespectful" person or "psycho".


The Ndibambe songbird she is used to being called names by her ex-fiancé.

“I have already gotten used to cause you used to call me worse names during our relation so nje that one is within your character awuzincedi! (you can't help yourself). If there's anything, you are a bully of note, and not only are you rude to me but even towards my own mother who is doing us nothing but a favour by raising our kids simply because I'm not stable enough as a mom to take care of my now,” she adds.

Heavy K met Ntombi at a nightclub in Grahamstown in the Eastern Cape in 2014. He was smitten from the word go but she didn’t make it easy for him. But she says her ex-fiancé is good at making empty promises. 

“All you ever do is to make empty promises and that you are good at! Do you know who bought winter clothes for your kids? It's me! Do you know who pays for any specialists or doctors’ appointments? It's me! Cause my mother would call you to tell you that the kids are sick but what do you ever do?” she says.

“Okay olady I will send money,’ do you ever do it? No! All you ever tell my mother is that "you are a busy man" too busy for your own kids? Then you want to earn respect from me? Never. What I am doing right now is not who I am, but you've pushed me way too far and you continue to disrespect me as if I am not trying to be the best mom for my kids.”

Ntombi says Heavy K has been saying he wants to take the kids and live with them.

“But also it's part of your games cause kaloku mna I'm not fit enough to live with my kids cause ‘I sleep around with Nigerians,’ as you would always say and God knows I thank those Nigerians cause their money takes care of my kids! And I sleep peacefully knowing that” she says.

“The very same Nigerians that you always insult me about are the same ones that made sure that your kids had Christmas clothes in 2019 because you decided to send 3k for food and clothes and I will never forget that December! I was down and out had just moved out of our home and you did that to your boys!” she adds.

Ntombi says she needs Heavy K to change for the sake of his children.

“I don't care whether your things are going well or not I need you to make a change and make a plan for my kids! Just like I am working and ‘selling my pu%$y’ to make sure I make provision for my kids nawe ke bhuti make a plan!” she says.

“I am tired of you! You are tiring and I want people to know what you are putting your kids through. Call me psycho or bitter at this point I don't give a fu#k! For my kids, I will do anything. I want a wheelchair for Juju! And I want you to make a plan like you have been promising the past two years. I can't be paying for physios alone! Speech therapists, occupational, hydrotherapy is needed to make a plan!” Ntombi says.

“And I pray that the mother of your last born never has to go through what I am going through right now cause wena when things go wrong with the baby mama you have proved to me that you also turn your back kwinzala yakho (on your kids).”

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